Mr. Right

We love, we lose and we ultimately should learn from it, right? So why is it that we often are drawn to the same type of people over and over? It’s weird because you hear yourself say “they aren’t my type,” but “Hello Mcfly!” If your type was right for you don’t you think you would have nailed it down by now?! And I keep saying you because I am in denial. I don’t want to admit to you or myself that I have been doing this… I am for some reason unknown to me, attracted to men who are completely wrong for me… and I sit and wonder why. There are good guys available(right?), I mean surely it’s not true that they really are all gay or married, because that really stinks if that’s true… But is it that there is just ONE special person made for each of us like some believe or could it be possible that a number of people be right for you if the circumstances are right and the relationship is nurtured? I wish I knew…because while I try to be an optimistic person, I don’t know that looking for a needle in a haystack is really my cup of tea… And I am one of those few people out there who really and truly believes that marriage is FOREVER and you have to work at it…so then I find my needle and what if he doesn’t believe like that?! Or does him being my needle automatically mean that he and I will share that belief? I dunno…see…so much to think about…


And so there we go getting back on the relationship merry go round…the same one we always get on and jump off at the same time looking for the same old thing…or should we choose to cross the monkey bars instead and see what’s on the other side waiting for us?! Maybe it’s just the other side of the same old park, or maybe it’s exactly what we have been searching for.

All I am saying is give it atleast a shot..no hurt in trying...the guy from left field might be the wind beneath your wings, and if not eh well, maybe he is just the wind under your kite and he will blow it up onto a power line and you will have to call a handsome service man to get it free...heehee.. Just messing...give it a real shot.

Have a GOODloe Day!